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    Friday OT #2 - P and SCs

    I was just reading an article about a husband with an online porn addiction, and how the wife put blockers on all of their WiFi and everything because she and their therapist saw it as cheating.

    Do you find porn to be cheating? What about strip clubs? What if they're in moderation vs. excessiveness? What IS excessive?


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    How can watching porn be cheating?

    If Im getting sex by watching porn, then I am a super hero by watching Avengers.



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    I think you may have intimacy issues or you just may be bored with your sex life if you only care to watch porn....but I don't see that as cheating. Cheating to me involves emotions/feelings. All humans get aroused by things....but how far you'll let the arousal go probably depends on the type of relationship you have.


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    How can watching porn be cheating?

    If Im getting sex by watching porn, then I am a super hero by watching Avengers.
    Yeah, I don't really get it, either - the wife said that he was thinking of other women while he was... enjoying himself? I don't know, it just baffled me that she'd play babysitter to a grown-*** man by putting a blocker on the internet. If I were the husband, I'd be irate.


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    what did your hubby do now?



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    I think the question is more "what is cheating?" Flame away, but this movie is actually pretty good and talks about this in a variety of ways (emotional cheating vs physical). http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0160916/

    It's kinda of like the debate when someone says "I'm not sexually active" and they've done EVERYTHING but had a certain part go inside a certain other part, if you know what I mean.



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    How can watching porn be cheating?

    If Im getting sex by watching porn, then I am a super hero by watching Avengers.
    and a zombie by watching the Walking Dead

    Then again, if you watch something like American Idol or the Voice, it does make you a *****.


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Guessing the view count on a thread with this headline hits 1 million before noon


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    If porn is cheating then people must view it a lot differently than I do. Porn is more informational than cheating,its just a way to keep up with the times and maybe learn so.ething new. As for strip clubs, every once in a while would be okay but only in large group and you don't be that old creeper perving on every chick on stage. I would rather have a hooker than a stripper because at least you get something out of it. I think strip clubs are a waste of money but they can be fun and as long as the wife is on the same page and it is still fun hen it is okay. When it is no longer fun or the wife no longer likes it then it is excessive.



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by abe2010 View Post
    what did your hubby do now?
    LOL - definitely not me. I honestly can't imagine really caring about porn or strip clubs, as long as there's no happy ending at the club.


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    If the sig other is participating in web cam sexual encounters with someone then I would say yes.

    That whole scenario above seems like they need more marriage therapy and maybe he needs sex addiction counseling. It sounds like he is substituting porn for intimacy with her. Its not cheating.



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    If the sig other is participating in web cam sexual encounters with someone then I would say yes.

    That whole scenario above seems like they need more marriage therapy and maybe he needs sex addiction counseling. It sounds like he is substituting porn for intimacy with her. Its not cheating.
    And it sounds to me like she's also got a mix of control issues. It sounds like a really, really bad combination.


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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    Quote Originally Posted by abe2010 View Post
    what did your hubby do now?
    Quote Originally Posted by Angie View Post
    ... definitely not me...
    Uhhhh....



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    Re: Friday OT #2 - Porn and Strip Clubs

    I think that her therapist is terrible and just milking as much money as they can from her. I think they both probably have issues but it almost certainly isn't going to end well.



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