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    Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Anyone here have that experience? I was raised Luthern, but some of this marriage prep stuff seems odd.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I was raised protestant and married a catholic. We have had our fair share of discussions/disagreements but have agreed on the foundation of our beliefs. We actually are sponsor couples for those in the same situation we were in. Feel free to PM me if any questions. I've probably felt and noticed a lot of the same things you have/do.


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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I did it about three years ago. I think the marriage prep requirements are pretty heavily dependent on what priest/church is marrying you. Are you doing the whole RCIA/RCRA conversion thing?



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I went down that road 5 years ago, and the questionnaire stuff basically said we weren't very compatible and should thinks seriously about and discuss our marriage. We scoffed at it, didn't bat an eye, and lasted a little over 4 years.

    Hopefully you and your fiance see eye to eye on most issues or can find middle ground where you might not.

    By the way, I am still a practicing Catholic after converting before our marriage.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I have to watch some videos called "Good News about Sex & Marriage."




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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I am a Catholic, married a Jehovah's Witness... it is definitely weird stuff there. SOME priests are more weird about it than others. A lot of the silly stuff mostly happens if you are planning on having a priest marry you (which would mean Catholic church wedding). Just be thankful you aren't marrying in to the old school Catholics. It is definitely easier than having a priest bless the wedding after you're married.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Getting married in Catholic Church by a priest, but not having a full mass.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by cycopath25 View Post
    I have to watch some videos called "Good News about Sex & Marriage."

    I forgot about all the natural child planning stuff... We were lucky to get a priest that made that course optional and a sponsor couple who, while the believed in and followed it, didn't try to push it on us and just sort of presented it as something to think about and left it alone. The fact that they had 7 kids probably didn't make them real confident in trying to sell that concept to a young couple, lol.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by MNCyGuy View Post
    I forgot about all the natural child planning stuff... We were lucky to get a priest that made that course optional and a sponsor couple who, while the believed in and followed it, didn't try to push it on us and just sort of presented it as something to think about and left it alone. The fact that they had 7 kids probably didn't make them real confident in trying to sell that concept to a young couple, lol.
    So how do I address the fact that my future spouse wants 4 kids. I want 2 so we are planning on having 3?



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by cycopath25 View Post
    Getting married in Catholic Church by a priest, but not having a full mass.
    We did this too. I didn't want to deal with the drama of people not being able to or not knowing whether they should take communion. Even with a couple old school Catholics in my wife's family, we didn't get any complaints.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by cycopath25 View Post
    So how do I address the fact that my future spouse wants 4 kids. I want 2 so we are planning on having 3?
    I'm not sure I understand the question. It sounds like you guys have already talked about it and addressed the issue. I think that's like 90% of the reason the Catholic church makes couples go through the counseling, to eliminate all the young couples that go "oooo pretty ring! wedding planning!" but don't take the time to actually consider what their life together will be.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    I've been dating a girl for well over a year, I have no idea what she is and vice versa. I know she is a christian of some type. Does someone's religion still play an important role in a relationship? I thought that was long gone.


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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by cycopath25 View Post
    Anyone here have that experience? I was raised Luthern, but some of this marriage prep stuff seems odd.
    Just play the game, get married, and then be happy. It is just a few months of torture.


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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Those of who weren't Catholic, did you convert prior to getting married?

    I'm in the same position as the OP, I'm Lutheran, fiancee is Catholic.



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    Re: Non-Catholic Marrying Catholic

    Quote Originally Posted by ISUboi12 View Post
    I've been dating a girl for well over a year, I have no idea what she is and vice versa. I know she is a christian of some type. Does someone's religion still play an important role in a relationship? I thought that was long gone.
    If you don't know what religion she is at this point that probably means she is not that into it, so you don't have to worry.


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